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The Bee

Posted on June 2, 2013 with 5 comments

When I was a child, we lived in a small stone house not far from the town of Tuckahoe. 88 Lawrence Avenue was the address. I loved this house, and I dream of it still.

Right off of the kitchen there was a winter garden which had been added to the back of the house, with windows overlooking a rock wall out back where my parents would hide Easter Eggs and firecrackers. The dreamy morning sun would glaze over the cool slate tiles, and I often preferred to play on the floor as opposed to my playpen, which was pushed up against my father's piano on the left side of the room.

It was in the safety of this warm and friendly place, that I would learn many of my earliest and most profound lessons about life. My mother used to hang a red wooden swing for me in the doorway that led to the kitchen. This way she could watch me while she enjoyed her morning coffee.

One gloriously palatial afternoon, the only kind of afternoon there is when you are three, a bee made an unannounced visit and began orbiting around me as I swung gleefully back and forth, oblivious to any danger. All of the sudden, my mother began to panic, shouting for me to dismount the swing immediately. I didn't know what was going on, except that now I was afraid because of the way she was acting. She moved wildly across the room with a rolled-up newspaper in one hand, waving it around as if she were conducting some sort of imaginary orchestra. There was a huge whack as the newspaper made contact with the wall, and I knew that she had hit something.

I walked slowly toward where the sound had come from. As I drew closer, I could see something gyrating on the colorful tiles; it was the bee, wounded but still alive. Overcome by concern, I was worried that he might be in pain. Being a friend to all living things, even to insects at this point, I knelt beside him with great humility. Singling out my pinky, the tiniest and most delicate finger, I lovingly began to stroke his dying body. "Poor little bee, poor little bee," I whispered softly, with every ounce of compassion that I could summon from my tenderly naive little heart.

The bee responded, leaving me with something I truly had not anticipated as he departed this earthly plane. He plunged his barbed appendage into the soft flesh of my little pinky with not as much as a passing thought. I let out a sharp cry and began to sob with pain and confusion. Tears burned pathways across the two crimson hemispheres of my face, rolling down and around the pout of my trembling lips. I don't remember any other part of that morning at all.

Little did I realize at the time, but this scene would in some way replay itself over and over again throughout my life in the struggle for acknowledgment as an artist, as a woman, and as a compassionate human being...and somehow, I wouldn't have it any other way. The emotional echo of this childhood experience has provided me with the stregnth of will to circumvent the seemingly insurmountable obstacles I have encountered along my path.


Oldtuk_resized My nephew sent me this photo of the winter garden after reading my story. It is just as I remember! My brother is the little boy in the foreground, looking into the camera. That's my mother, pointing at the photographer...which must have been my father...and I am the baby being held by my grandmother, on the left.

Davina A Gabriel

August 4, 2013

That's a wonderful, and inspiring story, Carolyne. I have a similar memory from my childhood. When I was about 5 years old, I was looking at flowers in my mother's flower garden, and I saw a bee. I think I had never seen one before, and didn't know what it was. It looked very pretty, so I picked it up to look at it; and of course, it stung me. It seemed to hurt worse than anything else I had previously experienced, but I guess experiencing the beauty of the world makes the pain it might inflict worthwhile.

Marc Chabot

June 3, 2013

I love the story, and have six baby praying mantises walking around my kitchen from an egg case I rescued just before carpenters would
trampled it into the ground. Look forward to the rest of your story.

Steve Hann

June 3, 2013

This chapter captures the you I knew from Amsterdam Ave. We're at our best w/ memories, and you've always had a way with words, both as lyrics and prose. Looking forward with great anticipation to reading the finished book.

Brad

June 3, 2013

I love the story, and loved seeing the photo at the end!

Andrew

June 2, 2013

I look forward to the new book Carolyne. You have a wonderful way with prose as they say and I think your life story will be a one others find interesting as well. Good luck.